From where does a human get the right to put down an other human on the basis of class? Seriously, it is utter stupidity and inhumane to consider someone not worthy to eat or sit with you just because you feel they don’t match up to your standards. A similar sort of incident recently took place in a well known restaurant named “Mocambo” in Kolkata. The incident came in to light only after a furious customer expressed her disappointment through this Facebook post.
The details in Dilashi Hemnani’s post is definitely going to make you cringe up on the restaurant staff’s behavior. The post claims that, Dilashi and her driver were denied to dine in the restaurant because the staff thought the driver’s clothes were too shabby for the restaurant’s standard!!
Her Facebook post stated the following.
How shallow and inhuman have we become ?
Last night being my last day in Kolkata decided to try out this popular restraunt called Mocambo’ at Park Street .I decided to go with my driver -Manish bhaiya here whose great service and care throughout my stay in Kolkata for a week was excellent . ( Also yesterday afternoon he missed his lunch because I forgot to tell him to go for lunch – uncertain about the time it would take me to finish the meeting -he missed his lunch )
Guilty of my mistake . I decided to go out for dinner with him .
As soon as I reached Mocambo at around 8:40 PM . I asked the staff to give me a table for 2.
Staff : There is a waiting of 15 minutes .
Me : *as excited I was to try out this popular joint *happily agreed
Staff :* by this time they observed I was with Manish bhaiya * walked up to me and said it will take 45 minutes for the table to get ready .
Me : *little confused by time communicated *earlier …now eagerly asked but you said 15 minutes
Staff : yes the table was going to get empty but they ordered for more food
Me : *peeping through the glass windows *but I can see some empty tables inside .
Staff : they are four seaters.. today is Friday we cannot give that table .
After waiting for 10-15 minutes . When I see people who came after me getting the table .
Me : why are you not giving me the table ?
Staff : Maam we can’t give you a table
Me : But why ?
Staff : who are you with
Me : subtly pointing towards Manish bhaiya .
Staff : aahhh….Maam he is not properly dressed .
Me : * he was cleanly dressed in a cream trouser and a shirt tucked out .. And floaters *
I asked what is your dress code ?
Staff : we don’t have a dress code .
Me : then ??
Staff :No No he is not properly dressed it’s a fine dine restraunt
Me : *agitated by now *what’s wrong with his dressing tell me and is there a written dress code he is not following ?
By this time Manish bhaiya understood parts of the conversation in English and by the daunting looks of the staff -walks up to me and says – ‘Didi hum Nahi Khaenge aap Khana Kha lijiyega na ‘
Me : * hurt with his innocence and inhuman inconsiderate behaviour of the staff at Mocambo *
Me : call your manager give me a valid reason why he cannot come in .
Staff : goes and calls another person
Me : sir why can’t he come in ?
Staff : because he is drunk
Me : *furious and baffled with the audacity of the staff *How do you know he is drunk ?
Staff : because my other colleague told me he is so
Me : on what basis due you make such assumptions . Did he drink in front of you or did you even go near him * they were standing 2-3 meters apart *He is driving me around since 8 o clock in the morning leave apart being drunk he is not even had food
Staff : but I know he is drunk
Me : prove it then
Me : what’s your name
Staff : I can’t tell you my name
Me : why ?
Staff : No No I can’t it’s just I can’t let you in with him
Me : I Don’t want to get in to your racist restraunt walks away with Manish bhaiya with deep grief in my heart on how Inhuman and shallow the world has become 🙁
Manish bhaiya is one of the finest human beings I have met in a long time he took good care of me and did his duty with all his heart .He is a simple man make 275 Rs a day for 12 hours of driving and sends more then half of the money back home . he has a difficult life Still he laughs a lot shares a lot of stories and is more human and empathetic then any I know .
To Mocambo staff and restraunt at Park Street Kolkata Which doesn’t consider human as human and differentiates, discriminates and stratifies them into classes just because he doesn’t fit into your description of a perfect customer . ( doesn’t own a iPhone maybe doesn’t talk in English ) I m sorry you don’t deserve a fine human like Manish bhaiya sitting and eating in your racist restraunt .
( Disclaimer : This is entirely based on my personal experience and has no relation with my organisation / profession )
The positive part about this incident was, we could spot many people who were against classism, and totally supported the driver. Also hats off to to Dilashi for standing by the side of her driver and speaking against the staff’s behaviour. We can believe that there is still hope, and classism can be fixed!!